To be alone doesn’t mean you’re lonely. There’s a big difference in being lonely and being alone. Let me be your dictionary for a sec😜.
Lonely means someone who is unhappy because they’re alone or don’t have anyone they can talk to. Or a lonely situation or period of time is one in which you feel unhappy because you are alone or don’t have anyone to talk to. Being alone means allowing yourself to be responsible for all of your act and your life without depending on anyone. Being alone is a privilege🎊.
So I’m here to tell you that it’s okay to be actually alone (sometimes) and there’s a reason why I say that. Here’s a few reasons on why I say that.
- Expect better from yourself, not from others.
Other ppeople will disappoint you,iit’s a bitter pill to swallow but it’s true. And remember that we’re not perfect just like you disappoint them as well. Love yourself, care for yourself, rely on yourself and improve yourself. This is the time to learn more about yourself basically. Use it wisely😉.
It’s always scary to start something I know. But believe me when I say you know yourself better than anyone. There will always be variables you can’t control but it’s best to focus on what you can control. And also don’t over think – just do it.
3. Own up to your privilege
The world is centered in a certain way so that certain people are treated better than others socially, politically and economically. Growing up in a country that isn’t warton is a privilege. Admit your privilege and unlearn the untitlement that comes with it.
4. Be nice to people without having expectations.
Be kind to people but don’t expect anything in return. Good things comes to kind people. Actually don’t expect them to react in any kind of way. At the same time, when other people show you kindness, express your gratitude because you’re not entitled to another person’s kindness.
5. Don’t let your kindness kill you.
We need to understand that we’re different and we’re raised in different manners. No matter how good your in tensions are, you can’t fix anyone. Be compassionate but it’s not your duty to save anyone from their trauma. We can only say so much and give advices but it’s all up to one’s self. Always remember, you need you more than anyone else could ever need you.
6. Life’s too short to live in a way to convince people.
You are worthy already ‼️
7. Where there’s peace, allow it to reign.
Put your peace of mind first. This means protecting your space and paying attention to yourself, giving yourself love.
8. Don’t be afraid to raise your standards.
Its your life, you dictate your standards. Having high standards doesn’t mean you’re selfish or that you are picky. Your standards are a recognition of your worth.
Being admired is always nice. But how do you make people feel when they’re with you? That’s what you’ll be remembered for.